Monthly Archives: February 2012
In Search of: Bowl of Fire, Lake Mead
You know what gets me seriously excited? Great hiking weather! Let’s hope I don’t jinx it, but I daresay, the spring hiking season is finally here. Woohoo!
This weekend, I hiked near Lake Mead at a place called Bowl of Fire. The views were stunning. We hiked amongst the red rocks and found the perfect spot to cop a squat for lunch. We lounged for over an hour, taking in the views and watching birds fly overhead. I played liked a lizard and laid back on a rock, soaking in the sun rays. Good times, I tell you. Good times.
In Search of: Cambodia, A Country That Captured My Heart
Let me tell you about my friend, Cori. We met sitting next to each other at a writer’s conference in Orange County, California. She was in town from Cambodia, visiting her dad. We shared a few laughs and a common bond over the struggles of wanting to write something prolific (nah, forget prolific, I think we’d both settle for something pretty good).
Someone in our conference session collected emails and started an online writing group. The group soon fizzled, but Cori and I connected on Facebook and thus stayed in touch. We commented on status updates and pictures. We emailed occasionally about writing and travel.
And then one day I showed up in Thailand, and she said, “You’re in Thailand? You absolutely must come to Cambodia!” Okay. Perhaps those weren’t her exact words, but I’m fairly sure they were something to that effect. And just like that, I was off on a whirlwind trip to another country. It’s amazing how a shared Facebook bond can connect two would-be strangers from halfway across the world.
While in Phnom Penh, Cori opened her home to me (and her washing machine). It was like being welcomed home. She treated me as an old friend, and I learned a hell of a lot about hospitality from this woman. I won’t forget it. For that (and much more), Cambodia ended up being one of the absolute highlights of Southeast Asia. I’d go back in a heartbeat. As a matter of fact, I certainly hope I do. That country captured my heart.
When I arrived at Cori’s, she wasn’t planning to stay in town long. She had plans with her daughter to drive to a town called Kampot. Just outside of Kampot was a guesthouse/river lodge that Cori had stayed at a few years before. She made no promises as to its current condition, but recalled a restful river retreat. They invited me along.
Les Manguiers, the river lodge, turned out to be phenomenal. It was the perfect mix of relaxation and recreation. There was yummy food (and, coincidentally, the mango shakes were beyond fabulous). There were bikes, kayaks, sun decks, hammocks, a Tarzan river rope and walking trails. I’m fairly sure I could move in if the situation presented itself. Seriously, if you’re ever in Cambodia, go to Les Manguiers, the little retreat along the river. You won’t regret it.
In Search of: A New Direction
I’m so very excited! The new blog design is finally up! If you’re reading this from your feedreader or an email, come over and check it out: insearchofsquid.com. I still have some details to finalize, but I’m really happy with the result thus far. It’s been a labor of love (and, at times, a labor of pure frustration).
As you can see, I’m taking the blog in a bit of a new direction. Well. Not all that new. I’ve been playing around with a focus on travel for a while now. I just didn’t have in my head exactly how that would look. Recently, I figured it out. I’m focusing on travel, travel writing and travel photography. I’m working super, super hard to bring you seriously awesome travel photos and quirky adventures. And it all comes with a twist because my travel is centered around completing the Ultimate Scavenger Hunt. Yep, I’ve upgraded the bucket list and made it more interesting. Forget trying to finish everything before I die — this list will be done by the time I hit 40 (with pictures to boot)! There’ll be points and prizes all kinds of awesomesauce involved. Keep your eyes peeled — more details to come.
For today, I leave you with something lovely one of my students said recently. You see, I was sitting in my classroom, chatting with one of the most awesome teenagers I’ve ever met. She asks, “Do you think you’ll ever have kids?” I respond, “I’m not sure, maybe someday.” Her response? “I hope you do. Only because I think it would be a shame if at least one kid didn’t get to have you for a mom. I think you’d be an awesome mother.”
Sweetest thing ever. Um. Can I adopt her?
In Search of: The Good Things in Life
It’s been a bit quiet on the blog-front lately. Scratch that. It’s been quiet on the publishing side of things, but in the background, I assure you, a whole heck of a lot is happening. I’m working on some big changes to my little corner of the internet. As I marched into 2012, I was hit with a wave of creativity and inspiration, and I’ve sort of been running with it. I’m redesigning the site, complete with more focus and direction. I know precisely where I’d like this blog to go in the next few years, and I’m pouring my heart and soul into making sure it gets there. I can’t wait to unveil the new creation! Granted, I don’t want to give away the surprise, and it will probably be a few weeks before it’s done. But just know, I’m full of energy thinking about it, and it will be so fun to share with you!
A few other projects have also been percolating. I’m not sure if I mentioned it before, but I finally bought that DSLR camera I’ve been salivating over. It was a Christmas gift to myself. (I’m a big fan of getting yourself gifts. Who better to know precisely what you might like?) The past few weeks I’ve thrown myself into photography — watching videos, reading tutorials, snapping shots at every opportunity. I love it. It’s so much fun and so creative and such a challenge at times. It’s a rush diving head first into a hobby that once intimidated me. Stay tuned, as I will be sharing lots of photos in the near future.
Speaking of hobbies and creativity, I’m signed up for an online painting class, and it starts Monday! My supply list is in hand, and I will be stopping at my favorite art supply store this weekend to grab new paints. I haven’t painted in quite a while, but it’s something I’ve always loved. Not to mention, take a painting class is on the super awesome bucket list. This likely sounds a bit strange, but I am often surprised by how spot-on the bucket list actually is. Perhaps because I once questioned the things I enjoyed doing — as in, I wasn’t quite sure what those things were. But now, I know myself. I mean. I really, really know myself, and I know what I love to spend my time doing. That’s an awesome feeling.
One last thing. I’ve started work on a writing project. I’m really excited. It’s one of the most difficult projects I’ve attempted, as I’ve been struggling to be 100% honest and vulnerable in the writing. That type of vulnerability comes easier to me when I’m writing fiction — no one has to know what comes from personal experience and what comes from my imagination. But this project is a memoir project of sorts, and to do it right, I have to really be honest. I have to let myself be seen in ways that I’m not necessarily comfortable with. My goal is to finish the project within the year, then send it off into the world. I’m nervous. But in a good way, I think. I feel like this project will push me to grow, as a writer and a person.
So there you have it. That’s what I’ve been up to. As the printing presses have quieted over here, the motion hasn’t slowed a bit. I’ll be back to regular posts and travel updates and all the goods quite soon. I’ll be writing and ranting and exploring and inquiring. In the mean time, I’m sending virtual hugs your way.
xoxo


