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In Search of: Surviving the Flight, Even When You’re Scared
For those that don’t know, allow me to let you in on the worst kept secret in the history of secrets: I’m afraid of flying! Yes. I travel the world, yet the mere thought of getting on a plane gives me nightmares. I have visions of plummeting to my fiery death. I fight anxiety for at least two days prior to take-off.
This is no run of the mill, it bothers me to fly kind of phobia. This is the kind of phobia that requires me to make peace with my untimely death prior to each and every flight. And if there are multiple layovers? Forget it. Each new flight brings with it more terrifying thoughts. In my history of flying, I have pretty much conjured up every possible horrible event that could occur.
But seeing as how I love to travel, my wanderlust overcomes my fear of flights each and every time. Thank goodness! Over the years, I have developed a few strategies that help me cope. And if you’re also afraid to fly, one or two of these rituals might help. Here goes:
- Drugs. I told my doctor about my issues, and she prescribed me an anti-anxiety medication. It relieves anxiety (at least as best it can when gallons of adrenaline are also coursing through my veins). Top the anti-anxiety pill off with a melatonin tablet, and I pretty much have a lovely cocktail ready to send me to dreamland. (Double bonus with melatonin: it’s an over the counter, natural sleep aid and works wonders for jet lag and time zone changes. If I arrive in a location where the time zone is entirely different than mine, a melatonin the first night helps me get on track with the sleep schedule of my current locale.) If you’re as terrified of flying as me, I highly suggest you talk to your doctor about getting a medication that might help the situation.
- Ear plugs. This might be my new favorite trick. One thing that scares me on flights is all the engine noise (and landing gear noise and wind noise and whatever other noise you can imagine). In particular, when these noises change throughout the flight as flight gear is adjusted, I am immediately on high alert. Ear plugs help block those particular noises, especially the changes in noise levels. Bonus: they also help with changes in air pressure. I have a terrible time with popping my ears, and earplugs make it so I don’t have to pop them as often.
- Sleep mask. I do all I can to sleep throughout my flights (even short ones). I don’t care if I’m flying in the middle of the day or the middle of the night. It’s hard to be anxious when you’re asleep. A sleep mask will block the light from the window or the reading light of your neighbor. Also, the mask helps you to imagine you’re not actually on a plane. Pretend you’re on a bus, and it’s windy (turbulence). As silly as it sounds, these things can help. I once slept through an entire 24 hours worth of flights, with the occasional wake-up to use the restroom or have a drink. Additional plus: I did NOT arrive at my destination jet-lagged.
- Reminders. Prior to my flight, I give myself a few reminders. First, and foremost, remember that the pilot did not come to work today to die. He does this every single day (or at least on workdays), and this particular pilot has made it through every single flight he’s ever taken, which likely counts in the thousands. Another important reminder? Kay syrah syrah. Whatever will be will be, people. Whatever happens, you’re no longer in control, so regardless of how much anxiety you send into the world, it will do you no good. If the plane goes down, there’s nothing you can do about it, and worrying and feeling anxious and giving yourself a near heart attack will not help. In fact, it will likely shorten your life (in ways that have absolutely nothing to do with planes yet everything to do with stress wearing out your body).
So there you have it — my pre-flight rituals. I wouldn’t call them fool proof in any way. There are times I do every single one of these things, yet I end up spooked and scared the entire flight. But most of the time, they help a lot. After all, I’ve never run off a plane prior to closing the cabin doors, screaming, “NOOOOOOO!!!!” In my book, that’s pretty damn good.
How about you? Do you have any tips that get you through your own phobia of flying?
In Search of: Lessons Learned While Traveling
I just completed 2.5 weeks of travel. The first few days were in Indianapolis for a science teacher conference. I got to geek out with a bunch of other science-types, and this made me a very happy girl. Also, I’ve never been to Indiana, which moved me closer to another goal: visit every state in the U.S. Indianapolis was surprisingly lovely, and I can’t wait to share a few pictures and the goods from the trip (interestingly, I made some great travel contacts!).
At approximately midnight on a Saturday, I arrived home from Indianapolis. I did laundry, packed my bags a second time and got ready to head back to the airport. On Sunday afternoon, I stepped on a plane to begin spring break — two weeks in Peru! I couldn’t have been more excited. Seriously. My socks were ready to be knocked off. (And the trip didn’t disappoint, I assure you!)
But before I get into the awesomeness that is Peru and Machu Picchu and the Amazon Rainforest, I have to admit I learned a fair number of lessons this time around. Let’s be honest, I’m still a newbie traveler. I don’t know what the hell I’m doing. I just sort of jump in, feet first, and hope there are no piranhas near. Don’t worry though. I only required a few band-aids.
Without further ado, a letter to myself (and any other newbie traveler out there that would prefer to learn lessons the easy way and allow me to make mistakes for them).
Dear Self (yes, you), a few simple instructions for travel:
- SLOW DOWN. I know you want to see everything. But that’s sort of impossible. And you’ll drive yourself insane attempting to do so. Psychiatric bills are expensive. Take the easy way once in a while. Avoid the mental breakdown. Slow travel is your ideal. (You know I’m right.)
- Bring an appropriate first aid kit. This includes more than two band-aids. An antiseptic wipe, Neosporin and a bottle of ibuprofen would do you well.
- Pack said band-aids and antiseptic wipes in mini Ziplock bags. Yes, you’re cheap. And you think buying extra baggies will kill the planet. But sometimes these things are super useful. Like when you don’t want to dig through the gallon size plastic bag that’s holding everything from your shampoo, your razors and your mouthwash, and you just want to reach things quickly. Mini Ziplocks are awesome for organization. And you know you love to organize things.
- Spend extra money on direct flights. Sometimes, you’re way too cheap. Never forget: by the end of your trip, you would gladly pay a small ransom for a direct flight home — at which point, you’re dirty, you’re tired and more than a little cranky. And let’s not forget, you’re also afraid to fly. The fewer flights, the healthier your heart.
- Buy a super cute passport holder. Okay. It doesn’t HAVE to be super cute. But it should be. On the practical side, your passport turns into a wrinkled mess every time you visit one of those ridiculously humid locales you seem to love so much. The damn thing’s going to fall apart before you make it to the last page if you don’t protect it. Plus, did I mention it can be super cute?
- Bring your netbook. I know. You think it sounds romantic to be without internet for weeks at a time. It’s not. Enough said.
In Search of: The Anticipation of Peru!
One of the best parts of travel is the anticipation that comes with an upcoming trip. And right now, I’m full to the brim with anticipation. On April first, I will be boarding a plane for Cusco, Peru! Okay. Not exactly accurate. I will be boarding a plane for Mexico City, then Lima, Peru, then Cusco, Peru! It’s going to be a damn long day. But, seriously. This will be the most awesome trip since the history of awesome.
Why, you ask? Because I’ve wanted to take this trip for probably five years. I even planned it. Twice. And finally. Finally, finally, finally — I’m going! My little self is doing kartwheels in my head right now. That’s how excited I am. (I would do actual kartwheels outside, but it’s a little late and kind of cold.)
I work at a private school, and we get two weeks off for spring break. I had debated taking this trip over winter break, but I decided to move into my awesomesauce apartment instead. It was a good move — I love the new place. But the trip truly couldn’t be put off much longer. My heart couldn’t take it. Spring break it is!
My friend, Christy, and I fly out on the same day. We’ll meet at the airport in Cusco and head off to start the adventure! (I know. Way too many exclamation points in this post. But I can’t help it, peeps!! Excited, I tell you.) We’ll stay in Cusco a couple of days then be whisked away by train to Aguas Calientes. Although Aguas Calientes has been described as the hole of all holes when it comes to tourist towns, we’re going to make it amazing. We’ve got hikes planned up some pretty intimidating mountains (which include some pretty steep ladders). We’ve got food plans. Because you can’t visit Peru without tasting the guinea pig. (Sorry Mr. Guinea. You were a good pet.) We’ve got early morning treks to Machu Picchu and photography and videos and dancing in the street planned. At the end of our time together we’ll spend a couple of days in Ollantaytambo. Who the hell knows what we’re gonna do there. But I can promise, you’ll hear all about it when we do it.
After a week in the Cusco area, Christy goes home (sad face). But I go to the Amazon rainforest (big ass happy face!). Oh yes. I’ll be sleeping in a room with 3.5 walls, staring through my mosquito net into the jungle at night. Creepers. But all kinds of amazing. I’m going to climb trees! I’m going to kayak! I’m going to bird watch and hike and wander and get lost (but not too lost, ’cause I’ll have a guide).
I’m not sure the word anticipation quite explains what I’m feeling right now. Freedom? Exhilaration? Child-like wonder? But whatever it is — I’ll take some more of that, please.
In Search of: What’s Got You Fired Up?
During the past weeks I’ve put a lot of thought into what’s next. Not in the I-have-to-plan-every-detail sort of way, but in the if-I-could-do-anything-what-would-I-do way. And you know what I would do? I would travel the world. Big surprise, I know. As a matter of fact, I’m sure you’re gasping at your astonishment that such a statement came from me. But don’t fret — breathe in, peeps.
You all know I’ve been playing with this idea off and on for a few years. And my life has sort of gotten in the way each time I tried. But since the start of 2012, something new has crept in — a feeling of total and complete calm. A feeling of — this is the right thing for me.
Granted, I’m not independently wealthy, so such a realization doesn’t mean I bought a ticket and am heading out tomorrow. No, rather it means I’ve made a vague plan. And that plan includes a new bank account — one specifically titled “Round the World Trip Fund.” And you better believe that’s what it says when I pull that baby up on my computer screen. It’s going to take a while to save the money and pay off my student loans, but that’s my goal. I actually have a date in mind, but I’m not ready to put it out there quite yet. I’m not a fan of making plans too far in advance.
Truth is, when the time comes, life may change entirely. I may no longer be interested in taking a year-long trip around the world. I don’t know. But here’s what I do know: if I don’t start saving now, it won’t matter what I want when the time comes, because I won’t have the money to do it! Thus, I figure it’s better to be prepared. If all is as it is today, I will go. If it’s not, well, hopefully something even more exciting will have cropped up.
That’s what’s got my blood pumping today. What’s got you fired up?
In Search of: Awesome Travels in 2012
The semester is over. I’m on winter break at work. I’ve got two weeks of downtime (well, after today, really just one — seeing as how a week has managed to slip right past me). I am officially in my new apartment, and I sort of love it. I say “sort of” because the process of decorating (and, more importantly, buying furniture) is both exciting and exhausting. I’d really like it all to be done. I feel a bit like I’m bleeding money. And if you know me, you know I don’t particularly care for bleeding money. I much prefer to hoard it. Ah well, soon enough, it will all be taken care of.
In so many ways, life is moving along pretty damn perfectly. I love my job, I have a beautiful apartment, and I’m planning some awesome trips in the new year. Which, of course, means I’m sort of waiting for something to fall apart. Things don’t generally go so well, not without a few hiccups. I’m trying not to think about it, but it’s hard not to worry. This is an unfortunate part of my genetic makeup.
Enough of that though, because I’m seriously excited about my travel plans for 2012. The other day I was sharing these plans with a friend, and it dawned on me. 2012 is going to be one damn good year. At the end of March I’m heading to Indianapolis, Indiana for the National Conference on Science Education. Sure, Indianapolis isn’t the most exciting destination, but I hear the conference will be awesome. Also, I’ve never been to Indiana, which means I’ll be one state closer to achieving bucket list item 40, visit every state in the U.S. From Indiana, I fly home, and the next day I hop on another plane, destination Peru. I can’t even begin to tell you how ecstatic I am about my Peru trip! I’ll spend one week with my friend, Christy, exploring Cusco and Machu Picchu (where I’m seriously thinking of mountain biking to the ruins). The second week, I’ll be on my own, exploring the Amazon rainforest. It might just be the coolest thing ever in the history of ever. I’ll be biking, kayaking, tree climbing, bird watching and just plain acting like a kid in a candy store. It will be serious amounts of awesomesauce. Seriously.
You might think my travel year is pretty much tops with the Peru trip, but there’s more. My summer travel plans are starting to form. First stop — Mazatlan, Mexico. A few days lounging on the beach and hiking a local island or two should get me ready for my real summer adventures. Although I don’t have all the details set, here’s what I’m thinking: four weeks in Guatemala and one week in Honduras. Gautemala = one week at a jungle lodge, complete with waterfall hikes, caves and hot springs; one week trekking to El Mirador, a spectacular Mayan city still buried deep in the jungle (plus, the obligatory stop at Tikal, the very well known and well touristed Mayan ruins); one week exploring the phenomenal natural wonders that are Semuc Champey and the Lanquin caves; and one week I’m not settled on yet. Perhaps I’ll explore some more natural wonders — Guatemala seems full to the brim with those. Or maybe I’ll check out one of the cities. I’ve heard great things about Antigua. We shall see. No rush to figure that out. But before I depart from Central America, there is one thing I know for sure — I’ll head to Roatan, Honduras for a week of beach, sand and diving! Yes, I’m going to learn to scuba dive!
I sort of want to pinch myself. Is all of this real? Seriously. Is it? It’s pretty damn fantastic that I love my job and it allows me time to do the other things I love — like travel. For reals, folks. Sometimes, life rocks.
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